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Resources

Below are a list of ministries, authors and books I found very valuable in my journey to heal. This is an not an exhaustive list. As I continue down this valley I will add resources as the Lord brings them to me. Please know the majority of all sources will be Christian based. Listed below are my top three and then below is a list of additional resources. I highly recommend all these resources. 

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Linda J. MacDonald is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in the State of Washington. She has 33 years of experience working with couples and individuals seeking to recover from the trauma of Infidelity. 

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Linda's new book (Sept. 30, 2025) and workbook are geared toward betrayed Christian spouses left behind. If you need help to recover from the blows of these double-whammies, one right after the other. This book is for betrayed Christian spouses looking for practical, spiritual, and psychological insights to empower their recovery. And the workbook is perfect for individual study and group support. 

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My Story

Tracy Schorn is the award-winning blogger and cartoonist known as “Chump Lady.” She’s the author of “Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life – The Chump Lady’s Survival Guide” (Hachette, 2016), which has been an Amazon #1 seller in divorce. Her work has helped hundreds of thousands of people leave abusive relationships.

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Since 2012, Tracy has been forging a new narrative about infidelity that champions self-respect and self-care for those cheated on. This stands in contrast to the conventional victim-blaming discourse that encourages betrayed partners to own their part in their abuse and assumes reconciliation.

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Her work as an expert on infidelity has been cited at the New York Times, the Associated Press, Huffington Post, and BBC radio, among other

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(Please note this book does have profanity)

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Divorce Minister is Rev. David.

Is an ordained minister and professional chaplain with extensive leadership experience in the healthcare world.* He have survived the infidelity of my first wife, divorce, and an ecclesiastical trial to retain my minister’s license following my divorce. So, the pain of infidelity compounded by toxic “Christianity” is something with which I am all too familiar.

Be sure to buy his book and sign up for his blog. 

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